To think that it is difficult to Forgive means that you have not understood what Forgiveness is.

I say For-Give meaning To Give.
You see Forgiveness as something exceptional, like a grand gesture. You
who are wounded, who are humiliated, who have endured….you forgive.
But what are you forgiving?
Considering that you have done nothing harmful, there is nothing to
forgive. He who commits an unjust action is the depository of that
action.
You think,” He did it to me”. NO, he did it to himself, because the
vibration of the error he committed rests with him. Only your
personality has been grazed, your Ego shattered, your pride, the
picture you have of yourselves, the respect you expect, but all this is
not part of the Energy. This is the Mind, it is the Mind’s
entertainment. So when it is difficult to forgive, it is because you
are not reasoning in energetic terms, but only in relation to the mind.
This moment urges you to find energetic Harmony, and it is wise and
right to do so, it is a need to give yourselves Harmony, and in doing
this, furthermore, the quality of your life will always take a leap
forward.
Whether the event is ordinary or great, your motives must be relative
to your Energy and not your personality.
It can become difficult and sometimes absurd to Forgive when your
grievance is enormous, especially when it concerns above all, your
dearest ones.
Referring to those who have suffered through their children: who has
had their child killed, tormented, abducted. In these cases how is it
possible to forgive?
It is always the same, the mechanism doesn’t change, from the microcosm
to the macrocosm the mechanism is always the same, the suffering too is
always the same.
We speak of intentions, if the person responsible for the pain did it
with cruel intentions, the person receiving this cannot take upon
himself this intention, it remains patrimony of the person who
committed it.
Being Aware of this we can understand that God has allowed this evil to
touch us and our dear ones, so that through this evil, this painful
experience, we have the chance of comprehending.
There is no difference between a small or big grievance, God does not
allow great grievances to happen to those who are not able to
understand and come to terms with them. God allows small or great
grievances according to the Energy’s capacity to cope, but the
mechanism is always the same. It is unthinkable that something small is
less serious than something big, it all depends on the intention behind
it.

Let me say again, the intention is from the perpetrator not the person
who is the victim.
Therefore, the mechanism can only be this: to close your pain within
yourself, (because it is pain we are talking about), to understand,( or
at least try to), why Life has given us this suffering, and from it,
learn what this suffering wants to teach us, excluding the perpetrator
guilty of causing pain to enter our Lives. Moreover, if this pain has
entered our Lives, we have opened the door to it, and therefore there
must be a reason.
We attract always and only what we need, this is a basic principle of
the Energy.
When we have understood what we must do, what this suffering is
changing within us, what it means, the rest must be excluded because it
is just a waste of time.
We must not even think. ” Can I forgive or not forgive?”