Often when you reveal yourself to others, it is looked on as a manifestation of the Ego, making you feel embarrassed and mortified, and so you withdraw into yourself.
When you are in a friendly environment with people who are akin to you, then revealing yourself is a sign of sharing and participating, wanting to improve yourself through the other person.
This is the central point: no judgements, but “using” the other person to help you evolve.
To “use someone” is intended in the positive energetic way, because only through the perspective of another person can I understand myself better.
If you have difficulty in revealing yourself, it is useless to ask yourself why. Sometimes one’s reticence is so ingrained, it almost creates a wall around you.
Sharing is contagious: the more you are open to this, the more you want to be, and this makes the other person reveal himself to you, thus creating a connection, where the shared experience is a mutual enrichment.
This is what must take place in the future between all human beings: Sharing.
We are entering into a paradigm where Competition must disappear, leaving Sharing to take its place.
Sharing has a particular characteristic: if it is to be constructive, it must be positive, therefore we have to share the best part of us.
Feeling victimized, complaining, causing confusion, all these things hinder our energetic progress anyway, so we must think carefully, and moderate these feelings before we share them.
First, we must carefully examine the details of the problem we have, and then share it.
By examining these details, does not mean getting to the truth, or finding a solution. It simply means that before presenting the problem to another person, we are clear about it within ourselves.
The other person can help us, show us a different way of seeing things, alleviate our anxiety, even make us change our minds, but if we do not have a clear idea of the problem we wish to share, then the effort we make is useless.
This is important, because it is undeniable that each of us attract our own problems and reality, and it is through this reality that we can make progress, better ourselves, and have an energetic upsurge.
Therefore, we all have our own reality, and we cannot entrust it to another person.
The other person may well be the means that Life is offering us, to assist us, but that person cannot take over our work, our problems, and we must only use another person, to help us get a better understanding of what concerns us, with the Awareness that – whatever concerns us – even if it seems to be a complex enormous problem, has been given to us by Life to teach us something, certainly not to torment us.
Let us reflect on this, and be completely receptive to real Sharing.