The difference between the vibration of Being and that of Appearance is extremely clear.
Let me explain, if my actions are aimed at influencing people, and I identify myself in that role, if I want recognition and am very sensitive to what people think of me, then I live in the Vibration of Appearance.
On the other hand, If I AM, then I am not aware of playing roles, and if I need to use one for a brief period, I do not identify myself with it, I just know that I need to do it briefly, and then go back to being myself.
There is a fine line between these two circumstances, because the human being understands that to reach a state of Being, he has to overcome Appearance. The vibration of Being may already be activated in the person, but not consolidated yet, so every time the person does something to “appear” he feels very uncomfortable. This feeling is telling us that we have acted with the vibration of Appearance and not of Being.
You have to pay attention to these feelings, but without feeling guilty, because if the Energy has activated a vibration, the person will be tested many times before it is stabilized within him, until there is no likelihood of him Appearing again, because he IS.
It is a natural way, that is all.
Once the state of Being is achieved there is no going back.