The subject we must discuss today is of vital importance, it is the family situation and its affect on the human being.
By family I mean all those people who are in close contact with the individual and have some influence over him.They can be the natural or adoptive parents, they can be the enlarged family with more than one father or mother, or where grandparents, aunts and uncles and other siblings have a strong influence.
Why is this important?
Because in the Evolution, in this evolutionary acceleration that is so urgent and pressing, the family needs to be evolved too.
What does this mean?
It means that the head of the family( and it isn’t by chance that he is head of that family), has mind processes and basic ideas within him that regard other members of the same family.
The tendency is to repeat and imitate these mechanisms and model ourselves on the behaviour of those nearest to us.
This however, can only be the first motivation. Then a moment of reflection must happen, to understand if these mechanisms given to us and observed by us, are actually valid for us. or on the other hand, if we must reason it out and decide whether our Life must consider them, and understand if they are suitable for us.
Only if they can be adapted to what we need can we accept them as they are, but if we feel that they are incompatible or cause us unhappiness, we mustn’t abandon them but try to deal with them in an evolved way.
All this is extremely important, because at this moment a “revisiting” of the past is emerging for everyone.
Now there are tendencies that are really permeating humanity, and they are the desire to go back and adhere to the mechanisms and life style of the past.
It’s a general fact, as if a global rethinking is invading all humanity.
This is necessary, because if we approach a different vibration( you can call it superior, but I insist on defining it as different), we need to review the mechanisms that we must keep with us, and those that we must abandon.
The family mechanism we must obviously keep with us, because the family is “something” that can’t be eliminated from the human race, but we must keep it in an evolved way. We must live it in an evolved way.
At this moment, it is extremely evident the situations where parents must, and I underline the word must…learn from their children.
Children must,( and I underline this too), listen to their parents, but so as not be too conditioned by them, they must then listen to their Instinct.
To listen, to reflect, but the final decision must be taken on how they feel deeply about it.
The reason for this is because there are a great many young people and children too, who already have a superior vibration activated within them.
Therefore they cannot submit to rules and a vision of Life that still belongs to an old vibration that is abandoning the Earth.
All this can happen either in a conflictual or sensitive way.
The conflictual way is useless, it creates wounds, misunderstandings, each judges the other, and everything stops there, there is no Evolution.
If on the other hand, the sensitive feeling way is used, with mutual respect, with the desire to understand, and above all with a great love for yourself, then it will lead you to understanding that the other family member may well be the person who can give you the input to better yourself.
This happens at every level, no-one is right or wrong, you mustn’t reason in terms of age, experience, habits or rules.
Now it is absolutely necessary that you allow your behaviour to vacillate, and that each one of you takes from the family mechanisms( and I repeat, it is not by chance YOUR family), what you feel is right, but only and quite simply for your Evolution.
To give in to the temptation of repeating already tried out mechanisms, means to stand still.
To stand still and observe humanity progressing, Life that urges us towards Evolution, and we are not moving, motionless. Why does this happen?
Because to repeat what has already been done, to adhere to rules, even if we don’t consider them ours, but as they are well established they give us a feeling of security, but it will only seem like security, because within ourselves if we don’t adhere profoundly to this mechanism, if we don’t feel it as totally ours, then we will always feel uneasy, have continual mood swings, chaotic thoughts,and be completely without equilibrium.
Therefore, I repeat that it is important now, it is a duty for each of you to stop and analyse your own family, analyse the behaviour of each member and take from them only what you consider right for yourself, what you understand could be an evolutionary step forward.
You must not reproach a family member for something in him you cannot feel suitable for yourself: observe how he lives, how he copes with it, and do it with great serenity, and I repeat…with an immense love for yourselves. Love that protects us from the judgement of others and towards others, and prevents us from hurting ourselves.