Is it right to be happy when unhappiness is all around us?
It is important to think about this: we do not all understand why one person is happy and another is not.
There are people who generate unhappiness all the time, they look for it, they feed it, they ask for it and manage to see Life as a continuous series of burdensome, serious situations that create unhappiness for them.
There are other people who adhere to Life, content with what Life offers them, understanding the purpose of Life, which is to live it in the best way, to have evolutive experiences not only for practical results, and so they are able to live and be happy.
However, some of these people have a crisis when they compare their happiness to the unhappiness of others.
They ask themselves if it would not be more human or just to help others, giving up their happy state and allowing themselves to be permeated by unhappiness.
Before offering help, we must understand properly these two vibrations: Happiness and Unhappiness. To really understand them, we must recall the purpose of Life: we are on Earth to have evolutive experiences, and above all to know ourselves better, and through the knowledge of ourselves, love ourselves and accept ourselves for what we are.
To be happy is an art because little things can give us joy, with what Life offers us, and being able to face with serenity the problems and inevitable difficulties inherent in Life. This happens because there is the certainty that Life is Love, and does not want to punish us, and anyway will ALWAYS give us solutions to our worries.
To live unhappily is however, to ignore all this, and weigh ourselves down with everything negative that surrounds us.
This happens because the individual is unhappy inside himself, he does not accept or love himself, or have self esteem.
Everything becomes wearisome if you do not Love yourself, you endure what happens as an injustice, and so are unable to find joy in anything.
The first question we must ask ourselves is this: why do I only see unhappiness in my Life?
Why do those who have greater problems than I do, with family, workplace, and complex emotional situations, manage to be serene?
We should think about this, and it is also useful to remember that everything begins from ourselves: if we do not accept ourselves, we cannot accept others, and so Life will always be an ordeal; we will always search for our thoughts to be proved right, we will do everything to be accepted, and looking for this acceptance will not be animated by the desire to share something: Joy or experiences, but we will tend only to unload the weight we carry on someone else, the weight of the Unhappiness we are living, because we are not in Harmony with ourselves.
Only when we have really understood this mechanism and are able to deal with our state of mind in a better way, can we think of offering help to others.
When our vision of Reality is in Harmony with Life, with the vibrations that animate us, we can allow ourselves to offer words, advice and comfort to others.
Then our actions will be of real help, and not permeated any more with the need to draw attention to ourselves.
Very often we move towards other people not with an authentic need to alleviate their unhappiness, but only to calm our Consciences that WE THINK, make us ashamed of our Happiness.
We must have the courage to live Life following our polarity, and if this is positive and makes us Happy, we will not have any feelings of guilt, we must just be coherent with ourselves.