When our Energy uses physical pain to make us understand something, it is because our personality is not retentive, and neither is it willing to understand in another way.
It is not that our Energy chooses physical suffering to hurt or punish us: it is only a means used by the Energy to make us understand.
Why does a person become ill?
It is caused or exasperated by a mental factor such as internal conflict or stress.
Why does a person do this so much?
His personality is too forceful.
Why has he got a forceful personality?
His way of living excludes the vibration of Humility.
This is important: if a person lives his life in a relative sense and not in an absolute sense, if he does not have fixed ideas but can analyze them, and if he tries to understand what Life is offering him without rigidly defending his own ideas but tries to really comprehend the meaning of Life, then this person is flexible and rarely will he find himself in psychosomatic situations.
On the other hand, he who is rigid, and shields himself from facing whatever is in contrast with his own ideas, results in a physical disharmony as his Energy is unstable. Therefore the only way that his Energy can make itself felt, is through a physical illness.
When a person is ill, he has time to reflect on his situation, he is less inclined to “exhibit” himself through his personality, because physical problems can create self-analysis, withdrawal and moments when the person views his Life in a different way.
I advise you to accept Life in a lighthearted way. This does not mean in a superficial way, or to be inattentive to what Life offers you, it only means that you should not become involved in an absolute way in situations.
They are all relative nothing is absolute.