Now let’s deal with a new issue: the person who seeks help from a therapist to understand themselves, and above all to get well.
Why does someone feel the need to do this instead of following traditional medicine, or at least together with traditional medicine. Often there aren’t any good results, other times I would say there are almost miraculous effects.
Here we must look into an area divided into two parts: on one side we have the therapist.
The therapist is endowed with both critical and analytical ability and an instinctive ability.
When the therapist uses a critical ability at the first meeting, normally he will fail, because he wants to take over the situation, understand it, file it, and deal with it, by inserting it into the models and patterns relating to his own studies.
On the other hand, when a therapist at the first meeting uses the instinctive way, he will immediately understand the problem and the personality, and above all will be on the same wavelength with the person.
Everything that the person says afterwards will be understood in the right way by the therapist, and he won’t fall into the traps that could be presented by that person in good faith.
The person can describe himself, his life style, and his symptoms with sincerity, but he gives a one-sided picture that is so incomplete that it could mislead the therapist.
However if the therapist has an immediate energetic resonance with this person because his approach has been instinctive, he will be able to decipher the complaints, the victimization, and the faked cheerfulness. Obviously a person goes to a therapist because something is wrong, a lack of, or too much personality, which makes him behave in such a strong and violent way, that he is damaging his Energy, and thus creates an illness.
This is the first part.
The second part concerns the person who goes to the therapist.
Here we must distinguish between two big groups: the person who really wants to get better will find the right therapist. He won’t go through the agony of years or months trying to find the right one because he wants to get better, so his Energy will put him in contact with the right therapist.
There is however the person who has no real desire to get better, and makes his illness the purpose of his life, and so he carries on searching and feels that he is neither understood nor accepted, and just because no-one is able to help him, he feels special.
This person lacks the humility to feel part of the Whole, lacks the faith and certainty that the Whole exists and will take care of him.
He has made himself ill because he has disconnected himself from the Whole. With humility he can reunite with the Whole, which will then take care of him.